that_isnt_love on Instagram: "Survivors are often isolated & alone in their healing process. Even worse, they are blamed for their own isolation & pressured to forgive & stop talking about their painful experiences- We know- Abuse is an uncomfortable, ugly subject! Do you know what promotes healing more than shame & blame, demanding forgiveness, or silence? Validation. Validation is more than the words “I believe you”. It’s people showing up for you in consistent small ways over long periods of